My friend who went to the dealership with me when I bought my last car 9 years ago reminded me about the experience. The car I had previous to that came with a manual transmission, and I set out to get a stick shift again. In fact, I really wanted a stick and only reluctantly ended up with an automatic in my car. They mollified me with a "sequential sport shift" that allowed me to manually shift when the situation warranted. It was marketed as "the best of both worlds" and I fell for it. I think I used it once.
I did not think twice about getting an automatic with this purchase. I have grown accustomed to the convenience and it now seems totally natural as to how it should be. I didn't even remember that I once wanted a manual until I was reminded.
What is the equivalent to a manual transmission in your world? Is there something out there that you are reluctant to give up or change -- but you haven't really considered the alternative? I think about software upgrades that I put off, but then can't imagine what it was like before I had the enhanced features. Or our receptionist's beloved typewriter that I forced her to replace with a label machine that she now adores. Or was there a time when a new hire seemed so slow but whose thinking revolutionized a process that you now take for granted?
Maybe it's time for you to shift your perspective and be open to new options.
-- beth triplett