#251 trade-offs

As a continuation from yesterday's thought...I am convinced that the need for compromise is more important than ever.  I had a recent conversation with someone who is very connected with national politics, and she described the country's situation as "scary".  "Our country is built on the premise of compromise," she said.  "But now, instead of putting the interests of the country first and working out a way to move us forward, politicians of both parties are too focused on their own interests."  

Yesterday's blog gave the telephone and music as two examples of growing independence, but there are hundreds of others.  Not sharing rooms with siblings, or even college roommates.  Teenagers having their own car instead of coordinating elaborate drop off and pick up rituals.  Streaming of movies so people can watch what they want that evening; the blockbuster hit is never "rented out".   Buying now on credit instead of figuring out what you can afford.  The list is endless.

How do we teach our next generation how to compromise?  Where do they get practice at it in today's world full of options and choice, and where there are few role models in the daily news?    

A compromise requires an adjustment of differing positions.  It is a co-promise to a joint settlement.  At your next opportunity, try to publicly role model the art of compromise.  Not just to move your organization forward, but to inspire others to follow suit.

-- beth triplett
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